In 1999 I sent my army pal, Al, a letter (it might have been an email, but I’m not sure we had that capability back then). I asked him if he and his family wanted to give everything up, buy a yacht and sail around the world. He’s a humanities grad, me an engineer. Both our wives are nurses. Between us we could circumnavigate the world in the knowledge that we could teach our five kids something, and our scraped knees and sunburn would be adequately administered. Thankfully he thought I was off my rocker and, as a result, both of us have led very interesting lives. Certainly, for me, if he’d said yes I wouldn’t have had the fabulously enjoyable, fairly full military career. And neither C nor I would have spent 8 years at our school having the time of our lives – me as a teacher; C as a houseparent. And, of course, we wouldn’t have had our Doris adventures which we were able to back up by slightly more funds than if we’d set off around Cape of Good Hope at the turn of the millennium – penniless.
Why do I mention this now? Well, our elder daughter (currently teaching in South Korea with her husband) got in touch today and described how, if they don’t get a job in Europe next summer, they might take some time off and do something different – bearing in mind they have Henry. One option is cycling the European ‘Rivers Route’, 2,200 mile trip from the French west coast to the Black Sea, following the Loire, the Soane, the Rhine and the Danube. We, delightfully, were welcome to join them.
I love that serendipity … that at about the same age I was, she’s looking to drop the shackles of employment (being teachers they can always find a job somewhere) and, whilst Henry is young, doing something adventurous. I’m not sure, even with our electric bikes, C’s up for over 2,000 miles on a bike. But her first comment was, ‘we’ll follow them in Doris’. Sounds like a plan.
And that reinvigorated my latent desire to do something similar to Bex’s plan, but on a barge. I always liked the idea of sailing from Rotterdam (down the Rhine), south, along the Rhine/Danube canal, onto the Danube, east to the Black Sea, south through the Bosphorus, around the Greek islands, across the Adriatic, around Sicily, possible across to north Africa and then back around the Med to Gibraltar. Sure, it’s a more expensive option than cycling, but what an adventure. The barge would cost you about £150k and, about two years later, you sell it and recoup some of the cash. So MY ARMY PALS … any takers? Come on, the kids have all left home. You only live once. We’d have four bedrooms, enough for family to join us as and when. You know you want to …
I imagine it will all go v quiet. But, as I’ve said so many times before, I will never judge those who decide that they want to settle down and have a house big enough for a family Christmas – and some. It’s just not for me. And I don’t think it’s for C, but you’d need to ask her.
In the meantime we’re off tomorrow – Shetland in a tent. And that is going to be an adventure. I’d like to think we’ll make 5 weeks before we find ourselves at mum’s in Colchester. Those of you holding a sweepstake almost certainly have us lasting a week. We’ll see. You could be right.
[And, for the record, we did C’s nephew’s classy wedding in Aldermarston on Friday, and either side lots of prep for the trip.]
Stay safe everyone.